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 Posted 26th October 2011 13:25 IP   
I have a client of whom i've known for a few years.
She's 55 and is a singleton.
I'm not sure how long she's been single for, but i assume for some time.
Anyhoo, i caught her looking at my crutch a few weeks ago, and when i was walking about, i could feel her mentally undressing me.
I was shocked, and i had a cold shiver that ran down my body.
I asked other people (sub-contacters) and they said that she has stared at them as well.
How would i approach the matter of telling her what she's (sub-concuiosly?) doing.
SCP,
She has a couple of properties in C London whats worth 1 1/2 million.
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 26th October 2011 13:44 IP
So you dont like it yeah? what about if someone, i dont know, constantly went on about your crotch for example? shoe and other foot comes to mind....
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Posted 26th October 2011 13:48 IP
How much work do you have left to do for her?
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Posted 26th October 2011 13:52 IP
I'd avoid their 'Friday Five' threads!
You can see it, but not from here!
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Posted 26th October 2011 13:54 IP
besides from what you're written she is not making any advances whatsoever. She's just not being very subtle (deliberate or otherwise) whilst weighing up each contractors goods
You can see it, but not from here!
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Posted 26th October 2011 13:58 IP
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So you dont like it yeah? what about if someone, i dont know, constantly went on about your crotch for example? shoe and other foot comes to mind....
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Judd's, kindely elaborate and explain please?
Have you taken your medication today? 
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 26th October 2011 14:00 IP
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How much work do you have left to do for her?
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It's sort of ongoing.
I usually see her a couple of times a month.
The thing is, a bloke i know thinks he's a Adonis even tho he short, fat and looks like a pikey, but i knoew he's been sniffing around her.
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 26th October 2011 14:02 IP
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besides from what you're written she is not making any advances whatsoever. She's just not being very subtle (deliberate or otherwise) whilst weighing up each contractors goods
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i agree, tho it does make me feel uncomfortable.
Yes she is, but she's making herself look desperta and is comming across as vulnerbale to me.
i.e. low self-esteem etc.
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 26th October 2011 14:04 IP
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So you dont like it yeah?
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No, no i dont 
Becouse it's in my face and personal,
not a jocular thing up on the internet!
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 26th October 2011 14:15 IP
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i agree, tho it does make me feel uncomfortable.
Yes she is, but she's making herself look desperta and is comming across as vulnerbale to me.
i.e. low self-esteem etc.
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Then why not tell her that. I'm sure it will improve her self-esteem no end!
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How would i approach the matter of telling her what she's (sub-concuiosly?) doing. |
Well you could:
1) do as I suggest above.
2) have a quiet word - not in front of others.
3) ignore it.
If you take options 1 or 2, expect:
a) a slap
b) tears
3) outrage
d) embarrassment
5) to be fired
f) to be laughed at
g) all of the above
h) none of the above
You can see it, but not from here!
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Posted 26th October 2011 14:15 IP
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Mark Mc wrote:
It's sort of ongoing.
I usually see her a couple of times a month.
The thing is, a bloke i know thinks he's a Adonis even tho he short, fat and looks like a pikey, but i knoew he's been sniffing around her.
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So, you're worried about the fact that she seems to have low self esteem?
Do you know anyone close to her? (that's closer to her than you, I mean)
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Posted 26th October 2011 14:28 IP
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It's sort of ongoing.
I usually see her a couple of times a month.
The thing is, a bloke i know thinks he's a Adonis even tho he short, fat and looks like a pikey, but i knoew he's been sniffing around her. |
Dick Here?
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obsession with the Okey-Cokey.
But I turned myself around and that's
what it's all about!
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Posted 26th October 2011 15:17 IP
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So, you're worried about the fact that she seems to have low self esteem? |
what do you think, July?
If she wanted to know, why not slde her hands up my thighs and then grab my crotch? 
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Do you know anyone close to her? (that's closer to her than you, I mean)
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No.
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 26th October 2011 15:20 IP
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Then why not tell her that. I'm sure it will improve her self-esteem no end!
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Im scared. 
she might then think that i'm interested!  .........
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 26th October 2011 15:24 IP
If she slid her hand up your thigh without some indication that you were interested, then she could have a sexual harrassment case on her hands!
If it were me, I wouldn't do anything about it Huggy, unless of course it escalates to a situation like the above. Like Shiny says, if you do say something when all she seems to have done at this stage is eye you up, you could upset the apple cart for a whole host of reasons.
Maybe she is insecure, maybe she just enjoys eyeing up blokes, I really don't know.
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Posted 26th October 2011 15:38 IP
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Im scared.
she might then think that i'm interested! .........
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or she might think you're deluded/arrogant
You can see it, but not from here!
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Posted 26th October 2011 22:14 IP
She's probably trying to flatter you to get a discount.
It really does work....so I'm told.
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Posted 27th October 2011 11:15 IP
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If she slid her hand up your thigh without some indication that you were interested, then she could have a sexual harrassment case on her hands! |
Tbh, i'd have had a giggle, wouldn't have felt flattered tho, and gentely tell her to spread her wings and look further afield.
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But if she does it to the wrong person, they'll prolly end up getting the wrong end of the stick and could lead her into a dodgy compramising situation.
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Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 27th October 2011 11:25 IP
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She's probably trying to flatter you to get a discount.
It really does work....so I'm told.
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It doesn't work like that (well not for me anyhoo)
You can be on a job for weeks and then get to know the clients that way. (usually it'd be the housewife)
Tho i've had more hits hits with au pairs and neighbours
I know a lady who works high up in Lewisham Council,
every time i go around her place, she's wearing a low cut blouse, and boy, is she showing off her splendid voluptious pair
If im with the other subbie (the pikey looking bloke that i mentioned) above on here
he really does talk to her breasts's, lol, i'm embrassed for him, but all she does it turn and talk away from him and doesn't say nowt. lol.
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 27th October 2011 11:35 IP
Perhaps your flies are open?
Thoughts become things, so choose the good ones.
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Posted 27th October 2011 12:15 IP
Can't you just enjoy the attention on a look but don't touch rule, Hugs?
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Posted 27th October 2011 12:21 IP
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Can't you just enjoy the attention on a look but don't touch rule, Hugs?
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No, not with Liz 
She looks and dress like a trendy left wing student and has the demenure of a feminist, hence i was shocked and surprised.
I much prefer the touch and the smooch  tho
at least i know where i stand then.
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 27th October 2011 12:22 IP
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Perhaps your flies are open?
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No, but she does it other men, not just me!
Everyone is talking about the closing ceremony at the Olympics and what was their favourite bit.
I just spoke to Nick Griffin, his favourite bit is today when they all fcuk off back home.
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Posted 27th October 2011 12:40 IP
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Mark Mc wrote:
I have a client of whom i've known for a few years.
She's 55 and is a singleton.
I'm not sure how long she's been single for, but i assume for some time.
Anyhoo, i caught her looking at my crutch a few weeks ago, and when i was walking about, i could feel her mentally undressing me.
I was shocked, and i had a cold shiver that ran down my body.
I asked other people (sub-contacters) and they said that she has stared at them as well.
How would i approach the matter of telling her what she's (sub-concuiosly?) doing.
SCP,
She has a couple of properties in C London whats worth 1 1/2 million.
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How can you feel someone mentally undressing you? How can you be sure that's what she was doing?
She hasn't actually said or done anything that one could describe as a sexual advance, huggs, so there's not really anything you can do.
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Posted 27th October 2011 12:47 IP
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How can you feel someone mentally undressing you? |
In Johnny's case, it's gotta be more someone mental undressing him
For the millionth time, stop exaggerating !
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Posted 27th October 2011 12:54 IP
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In Johnny's case, it's gotta be more someone mental undressing him
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Posted 31st October 2011 20:01 IP
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I have a client of whom i've known for a few years.
She's 55 and is a singleton.
I'm not sure how long she's been single for, but i assume for some time.
Anyhoo, i caught her looking at my crutch a few weeks ago, and when i was walking about, i could feel her mentally undressing me.
I was shocked, and i had a cold shiver that ran down my body.
I asked other people (sub-contacters) and they said that she has stared at them as well.
How would i approach the matter of telling her what she's (sub-concuiosly?) doing.
SCP,
She has a couple of properties in C London whats worth 1 1/2 million.
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Why, how did you injure yourself?
If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.
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