"............. that you are never to put on that badge should you be about to enter a L... in which there is a Brother with whom you are at variance or towards whom you entertain any animosity. In such cases it is expected that you will invite the Brother to withdraw so that you may settle your differences amicably, which if happily effected you may then clothe yourselves, enter the L... and work together with that love and harmony which should at all times characterise F…s.
If, however, your differences are of such a nature as not to be so easily adjusted, it would be better that one or both of you should retire rather than the harmony of the L... be disturbed by your presence"
Peter those are exactly the same words that were sent to that person .
There had to be a retirement from one side.
Unfortunately some people just cant let go and get on with better things than personal vendettas .