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southernsoftee
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 Posted March 19th, 2004 11:30 PM IP   
I've just got this message sent to me via gaydargirls from my ex gf. I've not spoken to her in a few weeks, and all she seems to want to do is harrass me. She wouldn't leave me alone in the Gale, and has now sent me this. I've just emailed gaydargirls to complain about the harrassment....
oh u silly fat fuck! u r a fucked up physco freak who really needs help, u r wierd, fat, ugly, have gappy teeth, (so ur not so perfect) u have more fat on ur digusting body than i think anyone i have met has, ewwwwww..... u cry like a baby becasue u ain`t getting the attention u want and then u have a tantrum like a two year old, get over urself u minging munter!!!!!!!!!!! lets hope u get crushed tomorrow at the concert u r attending on ur own (oh poor lisa has no friends) becase then i can celebrate never seeing ur ugly four eyed fat face again!
I think she has a problem, personally. I actually find this quite funny. Has anyone else had this problem from an ex?
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C@Pt!v@t3d Ph@T
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Posted March 20th, 2004 02:47 AM IP
lucky no... all my exes are nice and friendly...
but thats kinda scary what you got sent... do you attract weirdo's or what?... god bless the friendly exes.
there is no safety in numbers, or in anything else...................
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southernsoftee
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Posted March 20th, 2004 12:53 PM IP
ll my ex's are really nice and friendly, it's just this one that's causing problems. She actually chased me, and asked me out, but she's the one who has turned out to be a psycho lol.
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Daffy
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Posted March 20th, 2004 01:22 PM IP
Sounds like she has lots of issues and is taking them out on you.... personally I would take no notice of her and ignore her.... why don't you just block her on gaydar so she cant msg you anymore?
 
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C@Pt!v@t3d Ph@T
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Posted March 20th, 2004 01:34 PM IP
i think daffy is right... but im not agreeing on one thing with daffy... the issue about ignoring her.
ooo an idea... how about you turn and do the same to her... ok two wrongs don't, make a right but hey. but it would make some heavy entertainment
"but she's the one who has turned out to be a psycho lol"
PMSL ok we you expecting someone to turn out to be a psycho?
there is no safety in numbers, or in anything else...................
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sugar
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Posted March 21st, 2004 01:50 PM IP
Ex's are a pain in the butt.............. she just wants ur attention, so dont give it..........
Insults are certainly the lowest form of getting anyones attention............ sounds a nutty bird to me, and thats coming from someone that has met a few 
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southernsoftee
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Posted March 21st, 2004 07:17 PM IP
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Daffy wrote:
Sounds like she has lots of issues and is taking them out on you.... personally I would take no notice of her and ignore her.... why don't you just block her on gaydar so she cant msg you anymore?
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That's really difficult because everytime I block her, she changes her ID on gaydargirls and comes back with a new ID, so she can harrass me again.
I've emailed gaydargirls anyway, complaining of the harrassment and abuse, with the evidence and the last new IDs she used, so they can look back and see what she's been doing. I'm waiting for a reply. It's only supposed to take 24 hours, but I guess this one is a little more complicated, so they're taking longer. It's been 48 hours so far. I'm hoping to get a reply tomorrow. Myavbe they don't work weekends.
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Jai
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Posted March 23rd, 2004 01:02 AM IP
her username ent 'martialangel' is it.. cause damn! THAT is one psycho dude! And to think I wasted 6 months of my life with er!! Yikes.. but yea, sorry to hear about your psycho ex.. but there is always one! Trust me, outta my *cough* 10 *cough* exes, she is the only psycho lol...
Meh.. you'll get rid of her eventually.. mine went on a mad tangent of abusive messages, then eventually she gave up, pretty much when she saw that I was happier than I had ever been now that I was without her.. she got pissed, then pissed off... which makes my life 50 times easier!
good luck chick!
Jai xxx
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Daffy
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Posted March 23rd, 2004 01:16 AM IP
Well southern I hope that gayday come through for ya and ban her or something, but if she carries on I would just make a note of her abuse.. Keep reporting it and ignore her! No need to stoop to her level by insulting her back... Some women eh? hehe MAD I tell ya! 
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southernsoftee
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Posted March 23rd, 2004 10:02 PM IP
Bloody gaydar didn't do anything. They sent me a general email telling me to block her, and to show evidence of her abuse. Hello? I can't block her cause she changes her ID all the time, and I sent them the bloody evidence! I emailed them back telling them all this again, and telling them that their advice in my situation is no help whatsoever, and advising them that they need to help me properly! Waiting on a new reply! Took them long enough to reply to my first email, hope the second one comes quicker lol.
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southernsoftee
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Posted March 23rd, 2004 10:04 PM IP
Jai, her name aint martialangel, but thanks for the warning, lol.
No this one is in Coventry, actually Bedworth, but her profiles usually show her as in Coventry or Birmingham. She lists her fav pubs as Missing and Angels, and clubs as Gales and Route and DV8. She is 25, slim, blonde, a smoker, and into rave music.
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Jai
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Posted March 23rd, 2004 10:48 PM IP
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No this one is in Coventry, actually Bedworth, but her profiles usually show her as in Coventry or Birmingham. She lists her fav pubs as Missing and Angels, and clubs as Gales and Route and DV8. She is 25, slim, blonde, a smoker, and into rave music.
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Cheers Southernsoftee.. shall keep that in mind .. soo many psychos and you just don't realise it till its too late!
Jai xxx
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li$
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Posted March 28th, 2004 04:02 PM IP
The first n only ting u do wen recieving a msg like that is delete and ignore, n BLOCK girl!
Sorry i prolly mucho late in the advice giving... but I would b ashamed to shw that to anyone else, for many reasons....
just a girl in the world look at me
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southernsoftee
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Posted March 28th, 2004 06:41 PM IP
Why should I be ashamed? It's all a pack of lies. If it was true, i'd be ashamed, but why should I hide it if it's lies? I don't see the logic there!
An update anyway, Gaydargirls have emailed me telling me they won't be doing anything about it, so i'll just have to wait and see if she continues the abuse now.
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li$
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Posted March 29th, 2004 05:29 PM IP
Ashamed that I went out with someone of that mentality, o I dunno.. but don't 'wait' as u say, block her n forget her. U don't need da sh*t in your life.
just a girl in the world look at me
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southernsoftee
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Posted March 29th, 2004 09:07 PM IP
lol trouble is she's a regular down the Gale, and although i'm not healthy enough to go there right now, when i'm better I know we'll end up bumping into each other down there, and after the shit she's given me, she's the last person I wanna be seeing! She also, as I stated, changes her gaydargirls username all the time, so just when I block her, she starts again under a new username, so I can't win! Thankfully though, after this occasion, she ain't bothered me since, yet!
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midgethooker
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Posted March 30th, 2004 07:05 PM IP
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southernsoftee wrote:
I've just got this message sent to me via gaydargirls from my ex gf. I've not spoken to her in a few weeks, and all she seems to want to do is harrass me. She wouldn't leave me alone in the Gale, and has now sent me this. I've just emailed gaydargirls to complain about the harrassment....
oh u silly fat fuck! u r a fucked up physco freak who really needs help, u r wierd, fat, ugly, have gappy teeth, (so ur not so perfect) u have more fat on ur digusting body than i think anyone i have met has, ewwwwww..... u cry like a baby becasue u ain`t getting the attention u want and then u have a tantrum like a two year old, get over urself u minging munter!!!!!!!!!!! lets hope u get crushed tomorrow at the concert u r attending on ur own (oh poor lisa has no friends) becase then i can celebrate never seeing ur ugly four eyed fat face again!
I think she has a problem, personally. I actually find this quite funny. Has anyone else had this problem from an ex?
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i would bury the bitch under the patio i did mine LOLOL
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southernsoftee
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Posted March 30th, 2004 09:15 PM IP
Ah well see I aint no Rosemary West lol.
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freakness
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Posted March 31st, 2004 01:18 PM IP
aww
my ex tried to kill me... that's freaky too ain't it? lol
yeah well, he actually tried more than once, like, driving his car real fast and closing his eyes, not seeing where he went to..
till this one day, i met someone new (i was still in denial so dating boys, lol) and well, my ex was getting so upset that he actually tried to kill me in the middle of our market place
the fun thing: lots of people were looking, but not doing nothing!
i'm glad i got rid of that guy, he's in a mental institution now
*evil grin*
HUGS
*sticks out tongue* i ain't telling
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tarasheart
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Posted March 31st, 2004 01:25 PM IP
hm, freakness... the topic was: freaky ex-GF's. you're talking about your freaky sun of a bitch annoying stupid totally crazy hit by a mill 20 000 times in his life BF
just pointing that out. Thank god I'm sain (well, compared to that  )
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freakness
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Posted March 31st, 2004 01:26 PM IP
yeah well, i know, but it's just...
he's my ex tho aint he?
nah
*sticks out tongue*
x
*sticks out tongue* i ain't telling
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sonjablue
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Posted April 3rd, 2004 02:34 PM IP
southern if she carries on....or has she stoped copy all emails print them whatever and just hand them over to a solicitor...believe me it does work...if it doesnt the rosemary west option...can lend u a shovel
If u add coals to a fire u cause a flame
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southernsoftee
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Posted April 3rd, 2004 05:55 PM IP
Lol, no she's stopped, but only time can tell. thankfully, if you can look at it this way, i'm too ill to go out clubbing, really bad chesty cough thing, and because of that, I won't be bumping into her for a while, as she's a regular in the Gale, and of course I dare not go out for fear of an asthma attack. We'll see what happens in a few weeks when i'm hopefully feeling better lol.
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sonjablue
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Posted April 4th, 2004 03:41 PM IP
passes shovel...lmao...get well ok...i got a chesty cough...own infliction tho lmao 
If u add coals to a fire u cause a flame
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southernsoftee
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Posted April 4th, 2004 08:10 PM IP
The antibiotics the hospital gave me seem to be working well, so hopefully by Easter i'll be without cough at last! lol
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Fingers
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Posted April 12th, 2004 01:52 AM IP
One of my ex's broke my wrist countless times, woke one morning to find her striding my chest with the kitchen knife at my throat! She also stabbed me not too far from my muff, do have a lovely scar though and all this before I saw the light and hot footed it out of there 
@ SS if you were all the things she said you were, WHY did she go out with you???
I find that ex's say all these things cos they are pissed at being dumped, she does sound like a sad twat and if you ask me you are better off without her. Plenty more fish in the sea, and normal ones at that
Tellin it as it is...
And getting shot down for it!!!
Ah well shit happens
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southernsoftee
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Posted April 12th, 2004 07:12 PM IP
Why are there so many bloody psychotic lesbians out there? Very odd!
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nikki
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Posted July 28th, 2004 11:32 PM IP
lol
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susannah_uk2002
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Posted August 4th, 2004 01:30 PM IP
Hello Lisa,
I know what you mean. I had that from my ex girlfriend. Once and she fallen out with me before and broke up, she made bad comments about my disability and allsorts, which hurt me.
Susie
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southernsoftee
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Posted August 4th, 2004 10:03 PM IP
Funny enough, mine buzzed me on gdg 2 nights ago and apologised for her comments above, and all the abuse I received from her, etc. She said she was really sorry, she doesn't know why she did it, and she sort my forgiveness. I forgave her. Water under the bridge etc. Nice of people to apologise though when they know they're in the wrong!
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